Divorce Planning - Should I stay or should I go?Should I stay... I encourage parties to pursue reconciliation, if at all possible, with a good marriage counselor. A counselor that “fits” both parties’ needs is ideal. Sometimes it requires going to several different counselors (and multiple sessions to get acquainted with the counselor) to find and settle on an effective counselor for you and your spouse. It’s important that IF one/both of the spouses requires medication due to depression, anxiety, etc. that the spouse see a competent psychiatrist that will follow up with that spouse to insure the medication is effective. Sometimes the medication or dosage needs to be modified so it offers the best results for an individual. Counseling alone may not be effective if a person is not first treated for an underlying medical issue that requires medication. If you are considering divorce your emotions and thoughts might well be chaotic. Where to start? What information to gather? Who to contact? Or should I go...
Once you've obtained the information in 2 and 3 above, remove it from your home and put it somewhere safe. Divorce is a process requiring planning. The plan might change over time - you might choose to remain married - regardless you need to know what your estate is worth, whichever path you choose. "So you got to let me know, Should I stay or should I go?" - The Clash" |